The Cycle Of Death & Rebirth

THE CYCLE OF REBIRTH

Sometimes rebirth can feel like a death to the ones left behind, yet this cycle is essential for growth, change and happiness.

Yesterday my daughter and new son in law boarded a plane for Australia.
We have shared our lives and our home for 22 years. We have built such a beautiful life together, and now a new cycle is beginning. What a brave and wonderful adventure to embark on.

And what a loss for those of us who are left behind.
Having a child is like feeling your heart beating outside your body. Living, loving, hurting with no way to keep it safe.

I knew this day would come, and worked tirelessly for a year to make it happen for you.
Citizenship
Passports
Driving lessons
Dentists
Doctors
Wedding plans
Packing a life into 3 suitcases.

Perhaps the definition of love is to do things for somebody even though the outcome will hurt you.
Learning to surrender to something you cannot control or change.
What an experience this life is turning out to be.

The highs
The lows
The uncertainty

And yet the cycle goes on.
Death, rebirth, grief, denial, bargaining, acceptance still loading.

Tam and Lance, I know in my heart you will create a beautiful new life in Australia, full of love, new experiences and adventure. Go and share your magic with the world ✨

I love you both and we will see each other again. This is going to be a lot to get used to, for all of us.
Bon voyage ❤️