Candice Baker Life Coach

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  • The Benefits Of Yoga Nidra

    What is Yoga Nidra?
    Yoga Nidra, or “yogic sleep,” is a guided meditation practice that induces profound relaxation and conscious rest, bringing the body into a state between waking and sleeping. Performed lying down (usually in Savasana), it uses body scans and breath awareness to soothe the nervous system and reduce stress, offering deep restoration.

    There is science to back the use of yoga Nidra. As my voice guides the brain from active beta waves into deep relaxation states, you will start producing alpha and theta waves, and sometimes delta waves while maintaining conscious awareness. This state, often called “yogic sleep,” bridges the conscious and unconscious mind, fostering deep healing, stress reduction, and mental clarity.

    You will experience deep relaxation:
    Yoga Nidra will reduce your stress, anxiety, and improve the quality of your sleep by calming the nervous system by activating the parasympathetic mode.
    The technique is simple and non-invasive. The practice involves lying down and following my voice as I give calm instructions, which often include setting an intention (Sankalpa), rotating awareness through different body parts, and observing your breath.

    Yoga Nidra is suitable for all physical abilities as it is a restful, often silent practice performed lying down.
    Known as “non-sleep deep rest” (NSDR), it can act as a powerful tool for recovering energy, reducing physical tension, and aiding emotional regulation.

    Sessions can range from short 10-minute “quick boosts” to longer, hour-long sessions. Yoga Nidra allows individuals to enter a state of dreamless sleep or conscious rest, aiding in physical and mental healing.

    While you are lying on the mat, Yoga Nidra will begin to alter your brainwaves. You will start in beta. These are your active/waking brain waves the starting state of active thinking and alertness.
    As practice begins your brain waves slow, fostering calm, light relaxation and creativity as you enter alpha state, which is a relaxed state.
    Next comes theta brain waves, a sign of deep relaxation leading to your subconscious. The brain enters deep meditation, connecting with subconscious insights, emotions, and vivid imagery.
    Lastly, your mind will enter the delta state, where restorative sleep-like sensations will flood your body. These are the slowest brain waves, associated with restorative rest, cellular healing, and decreased cortisol, which we strive to achieve while staying awake.

    This is why yoga Nidra is likened to conscious sleep, unlike normal sleep, it allows practitioners to experience delta waves while remaining aware.
    The transition to slower brain waves reduces cortisol and promotes profound nervous system healing and stress reduction.

    Regular practice is associated with better sleep quality, reduced stress, and increased creativity all of which will improve your health.

    I offer yoga Nidra Meditations every Monday at 9.30am at The Goddess Foundation in Benoni.
    You can also keep an eye out for my next community event, which is donation based.
    Events are listed on my Social Media & Zero Gravity Yoga

    WhatsApp inquiries 0833613255

  • Did You Move To Trigger Town?

    DID YOU JUST MOVE TO TRIGGER TOWN?

    We’ve all been there. You asked your partner if the pool will be blue for the weekend and he lost his shit.
    He tapped you on the butt in the kitchen and you bit his head off.
    This is because without regulating our nervous systems, we’re all basically one eye roll away from a major tantrum.

    So why does something seemingly simple spike your anger like a rocket? Afterall, most of us are self-aware enough to know the argument wasn’t actually about stepping into the cat puke this morning.

    Firstly, when our nervous systems are overwhelmed we tend to run on survival mode. Your vagus nerve is stuck on fight/flight mode. Secondly, you have a ticking time bomb in your stomach and a vice grip around your heart, which is amplifying your anxiety. This is because the vagus nerve connects your body to your brain, so you feel your stress quite viscerally. In medical terms, you’re operating in sympathetic mode, your body is flooding with adrenaline and your heart rate is elevated.

    Then along comes a minor irritation and you find yourself on your broomstick before they could blink twice for help.
    This is where trigger stacking comes in. It’s an accumulation of both large and small stressors, which build up into a big reaction. One that leaves people wondering why you burst into tears over the order mix up at Micky D’s. Or a major tantrum in the parking lot sending the car guard scurrying off to safety.

    There are some useful tools you can put to work here. The first being to take a big breath and a slow exhale when something is really pissing you off. This pause will gift you (and everyone else in the room) the opportunity to choose how to respond. And it can make all the difference. Some words will stay with people long after you regret has faded.

    Before you go on the war path, there are some more nervous system techniques you can learn to keep things from overwhelming you.
    -You can cultuivate a sense of detachment where you can observe that thought. ‘Oops, there I go again’, let me change tack before the wrecking ball is unleashed.
    -That pause and exhale, will give you the opportunity for mindfulness, to assess whether your emotion was justified, or the result of trigger stacking.
    -Remove yourself from the situation and sit calmly till the visceral feelings in your body calm down. Notice your heart rate and breath, and start to slow it down.
    -Once your body and mind are feeling calmer, you can think more clearly and decide whether to return to the room. ‘Was it me?’ ‘Did I deserve that?’ ‘Were they out of line?’ ‘Unnecessarily rude to me?’ ‘Who needs to apologise?’ ‘Can I re-frame this and empathise with the other person?’
    Most importantly, if the conflict was justified … ‘Is it safe to go back?’

    If you’re feeling that your entire life has turned into a shit show, you are the victim of trigger stacking and you should take a look at ways to flip your script. Yoga and meditation are great ways to bring your nervous system into parasympathetic mode. Your body will soften, the intrusive thoughts will fade, and your muscles will relax. This is the rest and digest phase. During yoga your brainwaves will shift from the usual Beta to the slower Alpha wave, which promotes relaxation. Meditation will take you into Theta waves, which reduce anxiety, and a deeper practice like Yoga Nidra will shift you into the Delta waves, similar to a deep sleep.

    There are small things you can do daily, at home too, to take your power back. Like making sure you get enough sleep. Better nutrition and fewer stimulants.
    Grounding yourself by putting your bare feet on the floor and saying a simple affirmation like ‘You’ve got this, babe ‘
    Take time to stretch in bed, and set some intentions for your day before you become a slave to your phone.
    Work on a gratitude journal, just a few thoughts before bed or first thing in the morning to get into a good head space…And finally, add some self-care rituals so you’re not pouring from an empty cup.

    You’ve got this, boo.
    So don’t become one of those bad things that happen to good people! At the end of the day, you are responsible for your own triggers and people shouldn’t have to tiptoe around you.

    And lastly, before you diagnose yourself with depression, make sure you are not in fact surrounded by arseholes. Sometimes, the ultimate solution is to move forward, onwards and upwards. We were never meant to be stagnant or paralysed by stress.

    I am a holistic life coach and wellness coach, with a special interest in relationships and woman empowerment.
    T/DR Candice Baker
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    “Your most aligned life is crafted-element by element.”