Tag: Life experience

COACHING THROUGH CHAOS

There are many reasons for deciding to enter into a relationship with a coach. And many coaches out there to help you find your way.

Maybe you need to set some goals?
Maybe you have some problems at work?
Maybe your personal life just went down the toilet?
There are different types of coaches, each choosing their niche based on what their own life experience.
Some have embraced a spiritual approach, or a new age approach. Some espouse traditional values and roles, and others may specialise in addiction or career building.

So choose a coach who you admire, one who has already created the life you desire.

Now I’m not saying that the coach you choose needs to be schizophrenic to help you with your schizophrenia. But I am saying that experience and niche should play an important role in your choice.

So if you’re looking for a mushroom journey, choose someone who has experienced many, not just facilitated them.
A coach who has been divorced will have unique insights into your relationship.

A coach who has lived in long term relationships or had children might be the ideal person for your journey, or one who has the free spirit of a gypsey.
Whoever you choose, pick a coach who has come out the other side stronger, who has tried and tested techniques .
A coach who can give you hope rather than fear.

I focus mostly on woman empowerment, on a personal level. Techniques to improve your self esteem, insight into yourself and your relationships. Awakening your inner goddess. That doesn’t mean I’ve always felt like a goddess, there have been some hard things I have had to work through to get here. Some crazy mistakes and epic comebacks, and they will keep coming. I’m passionate about helping women to bloom into the most beautiful version of themselves, inside and out.

I haven’t posted for a while because I’m going through a lot of personal stuff right now. I’ve been focusing on me and my process to get through it, and it’s been really tough. But I’m still here, showing up for myself, exploring boundaries and wiser for it.

So to all the coaches out there who may feel that their lives aren’t perfect, it is the way that you have overcome your own obstacles that makes you an effective mentor.
It’s your life experience that guides you to help others in their decision making
It’s your emotional processes that can lead your client through a tough time.
Experiences forged through pure grit, ice and fire.

So next time you feel unworthy due to a personal circumstance, take some time out to process your loss, grief or trauma. Remember there is a client out there seeking your wisdom. Not textbook wisdom, but raw, real life experience.
Everyone wanders in the wilderness sometimes, and it’s how you find your way back to yourself that is the gift you can offer.
I see you ✨

I am a holistic life coach, relationship coach, and wellness coach.
You can book a session via WhatsApp 0833613255